What We Offer
THRESHOLD
An intimate 9-month initiatory journey for nine women ready to make the moves your life has been asking for.
TIME TO CROSS THE THRESHOLD
FINALLY MAKE THE MOVES THAT MATTER.
The ones buried under people-pleasing and self-denial.
The ones that will eat you alive if you don't heed their call.
Get out of the trauma-digging, psycho-analyzing, 'healing' yourself into paralysis and be fully ALIVE in your life.
To play in the wild aliveness of your most ecstatic self, you have to get out of the second-guessing, controlling, over-thinking, rescuer nightmare.
You need consistent, intimate support to unhook from the noise that isn't you, and finally step into the woman who’s been clawing under your skin.
BECAUSE NOTHING LESS WILL EVER SATISFY.
You feel it, don't you?
The wild ache.
The desperate hunger.
For freedom.
To feel alive in every cell of your being.
To love with your heart ablaze.
To inhabit your full woman.
To fuck, love, create without inhibition.
To dance and dance and dance.
To cackle in the face of crisis.
To play with joy and innocence.
To know the depths of Feminine Love.
To belong unapologetically.
But you're locked up.
Sinking in self-doubt quicksand.
Your animal instinct tamed to submission.
IT'S TIME TO CROSS THE THRESHOLD
INTO YOUR OWN LIFE.
THE CHALLENGES
You're restless.
You don't know what to do with all that fire, all that hunger - so you shut it down. Tell it to be quiet. Try to be normal. "Just be grateful. Don't be so needy or demanding." But clamping down on the truth of your longing is killing you. You don't trust it. But you want to. You have to if you're gonna live the life you wanna live. And this restlessness isn’t just yours — it’s generations of women before you, sitting at your feet, asking what you’ll do. Will you take on the responsibility of transformation or keep arguing for your own limitations? The choice is yours. But there is a choice. It's time to feel the visceral strength - the muscles and bones - of your true shape.
You're caged.
You've followed the rules like the good student, good girl, good daughter, good good good you were trained to be. But you're tired of being good. Good makes you wanna rip your skin off. Good has become a cage. The weight of external expectations are crushing you. You are done being the pretty, polite, accomodating, dancing monkey. You can't fucking take it anymore. You want to PLAY! But you gotta make your way out of the cage. It might be the hardest thing you've ever done ... or the easiest. You won't know til you step out.
You're starved.
You are starving for the version of yourself that has been shunned, dimmed, shamed, silenced. She wants to come out of the shadows and show herself. You want to be nourished, seen, and celebrated by OTHER SOULFUL WOMEN. You want to tear the meat from the bone. Sink your teeth in to the rawness of you. You're done going hungry so others can be full. No more martyrdom. It's time to find your teeth. It's time to EAT.
You're shape-shifting.
Who are you, really? You remain a mystery because you keep contorting to please whoever or whatever is in front of you. Not here. None of that. We'll gonna see you in the ways you want to be seen - and in the ways you don't. Terrifying? Yes. Thrilling? Yes. Necessary? Absolutely. You're ready to stop denying who you are, and what you want. Stop spinning in the question, "Am I good enough?" Become the woman who can shift the energy in the room from a place of power and love, not fawning people pleasing. Get ready, baby. Time to wield that power.
Resurrect yourself from the death grip of external expectations and birth yourself into the woman you came here to be.
Step into the new timeline.
She's calling.
Threshold is
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YOU'RE TIRED OF CONSTANTLY TRYING TO 'BETTER' YOURSELF.
You want to live. You want to be alive. You want to make big moves. You want to do the thing, say the thing, take the leap, make the move. Not for accolades, not because it's what you're 'supposed' to do, but because you can't fully step into your own life if you don't.
YOU NEED TO BE HELD TO THE FIRE. You're tired of getting away with your own bullshit. You need to cut through the dead weight, cut through what's not true, and be challenged to be more brave, more bold, more YOU. You don't want to be coddled in your insecurities, you want to powerfully TRANSFORM them. You can't do that through mental gymnastics. You gotta build the musculature and capacity to take the leap. Your physiology has to match your desires. Because who you really are is waiting on the side.
YOU DEEPLY DESIRE THRIVING RELATIONSHIPS where you are experiencing real intimacy. You want to be seen and known and see and know. You want epic love, unfiltered aliveness, the kind of beauty that cracks your walled up heart open and reawakens your faith. The kind of love that changes your life. With your own body/soul/heart, with your beloveds, with the Divine.
YOUR LIFE FEELS WAY TOO 'CIVILIZED'. You want to feel wild, free, alive, like you are truly living. But things feel ... flat. You're ready to express the depths of yourself and offer it as medicine to this aching world. Your soul is crying out and the traditional 'therepeutic' stuff is not working. You aren't actually moving the needle. You gotta live into all that wild potential for your one precious life.
YOU'RE EXHAUSTED BY YOUR OWN SELF-DOUBT. Even when you do feel clear and know what you need to do, it is way to easy to slip back into confusion, doubt, self-questioning, and making things harder and more complicated than they need to be. You need a space that over and over again keeps you in your clarity, and supports you to work through the deeper somatic/nervous system layers that keep you stuck.
YOU ARE CREATIVELY STUCK. You are an infinitely creative, soulful person. You care about art and beauty and love and expression, but you are so caught in the day to day practicalities that the creative life you truly long for feels dead in the water. And because your creativity isn't getting directed correctly, that energy is getting stuck in all the wrong places. Your life force needs a clear pathway. You want to have a rich, consistent, meaningful creative practice and you know you need a container to hold you to it.
YOU NEED HELP CUTTING THROUGH ALL THE EXTERNAL NOISE so you can actually hear and feel your own truth, desires, needs, wants. And not just hear them, but make moves toward them. You don't want healing to become a career - a sneaky way to keep avoiding the moves you need to make. You gotta clear out what isn't you to find yourself.
DOING IT ON YOUR OWN ISN'T WORKING. You know that intimate relational work and communal witnessing is necessary for this next iteration of who you are becoming. You can't keep hiding in isolation. Trying to perfect everything behind closed doors. Initiations deepen 10x when they're witnessed. You gotta come out of hiding. Mess and all.
YOU WANT TO PLAY! Your life has become so heavy, so serious, so weighted down. You want to let loose. Get weird. Have so freaking fun. You know learning how to play is vital. Play keeps your flexible, curious, creative. You can't be wild without knowing how to play. You can't be free if you're never experimenting. You're ready to try some things and feel the thrill of meeting new parts of yourself when you do. You don't know your edges, if you never stretch out to meet them.
HOW WE DO THE DANG THING
THE THRESHOLD PROCESS
1. Activate the Great Mother
You are anchored in an inner steadiness that lets you discern love from fear.
Anchor into the love, power, and presence of the Nourishing Mother again and again. Learn to trust Her - and yourself. When you awaken Her, you'll be able to discern the voice of Love from the voices of fear, self-doubt, and shame.
2. Clarify the Threshold
You know the precipice you're standing on and what is being asked of you.
Through radical honesty about your truest desires, you'll define your unique threshold. No following someone else's path. No trying to heal everything. Know what you stand to lose if you don't cross the threshold.
3. Devote Yourself to the Creative Process
The creative fire within you is alive, tended, undeniable.
Creative practice will bring your soul-images to the surface, beneath the rational mind. You're going to be held in the discipline to stick with your artistry, your own authentic expression. You won't ignore the muse when she comes.
4. Develop Powerful Boundaries
Your body knows how to hold its ground and move toward what’s aligned.
You'll strengthen your boundary muscles - not just as an idea - but an actual physiological body-ability. Develop fierce discernment to cut away what's keeping you stuck and carrying around too much weight. Restore your healthy fight response and move toward what you REALLY want.
5. Expand through Movement & Play
You gain capacity, range, and aliveness beyond what you thought possible.
To escape the comfort of collapse, you HAVE to move. You have to play. Experiment. Expand. Fill up to your edges and beyond. Freedom, wildness, and full expression won’t come from sitting still. It’s time to move to make epic moves.
6. Take Courageous Action
You follow through and act on what you know.
You'll be held to the tangible steps, real conversations, clear actions. Bring the inner work out into the world. No more stalling. No more letting momentum slip back into the tangle of your mind. Build real confidence through doing the things you know you gotta do.
7. Inhabit Pleasure
Pleasure becomes the stable fuel source that powers your life.
You'll bring pleasure front and center, reclaiming your right to feel good. Patriarchal imprints be damned. Reawaken the energy of play, of wanting, of desire. There is nothing more powerful, more beautiful, more life-giving than a woman centered in her erotic power. It's time to take it off the back-burner and put pleasure where it belongs - front and center.
8. Close Old Loops
You stop repeating old patterns and meet life as a fully embodied adult.
Through somatic coaching, rituals, experimental embodiment, and creative practice you'll grow up and into yourself. Stop reenacting old wounds and take your seat in your own body and heart. Fully close old chapters and step into the new one.
9. Initiate through the Circle
You take your place in the circle without asking permission.
Step into a powerful group field that amplifies your impact tenfold. Tap into a robust group nervous system when your own wobbles. Stay in the game, keep meeting your edge, supported by the love, solidarity, and power of radical women. Unwind isolation, rest in the strength of the circle, claim your place.
"I received true belonging."
"I am so much bigger. There is less seriousness, more flow, more ease, more grace. My work is easier, deeper, richer, more financially sustainable, and more fulfilling. I feel much more connected to myself. I feel a sacred deep magical unique connection with the Mother. I know the embodiment of Her. I notice more of the good in life. I receive more of the goodness. Life can move through me less encumbered and from so much deeper within. I can be the safety in the room. I can truly align to life."
Aspen
" ... I am able to trust what wants to come through."
"I walk taller now. I know the sacredness of living IN my body. I can feel my sacred NO and the potency of my voice. I am full of love that never runs out. I am full of divine light and wonder, mystical beauty, my entire being worthy, deserving, sensational and, I get to live IN HER, HERE! NOW!
Opening to the suppressed rage within, finding this artistic well of emotions & creativity, I am able to trust what wants to come through. The hearts and souls of each of these women, journeying together in safety, cultivated by the epic wonder herself, Whitney Ullom, allowed me to trust in doing less. I am magnetic and need to do nothing. I am enough right here, right now."
Jessica
MEET YOUR
THRESHOLD GUIDE
DIRECTOR OF YOUR WILD ALIVENESS
I have spent the last 20 years exploring the question:
"What makes something come alive?"
The first 10 were spent on stages, film sets, and in acting classes. In front of and behind the camera. As both student and teacher.
The last 10 have been devoted to studying & teaching the physiology and energetics of sexuality, trauma, healing, and somatic embodiment - uncovering the inner Divine beneath the wounding.
I am a master at being able to cut through the noise to see what's blocking your most authentic aliveness - and creating the conditions for that aliveness to emerge. I can smell the true impulses underneath the 'shoulds.' Like a dog on the trail, I follow the scent. I can taste what your body and soul want vs. what your mind thinks it should do.
And I'm not letting you get away with staying muted anymore.
You've done all the healing work, and yet ...
And yet. And yet. And yet. You once felt like you were really moving the needle, but now it's become a baby blanket. You aren't actually out there living. Your 'healing' has become a sneaky way to hide. But change ... means change.
Do you wanna continue to argue for your own limitations or see what it actually takes to move beyond your looping stories?
Do you wanna talk about boundaries and power or actually have them?
Do you wanna wait for everyone else to change or learn how to shift the energy in a room yourself?
STOP HEALING, START LIVING.
You keep asking questions you already know the answers to ...
Because it's easier to spin out than actually do the thing. Easier to think than do. Easier to watch than get in the ring.
Decondition yourself out of second-guessing. Stop looping back into confusion when clarity is right there. Your system is tired of spinning in the haze of "I don't know." You do know. And your soul is tired of you not meeting her demands. It's time to let your living be the answer.
BUILD THE MUSCLES TO MAKE THE MOVES
You're exhausted by the constant outsourcing ...
Because when you keep consuming instead of creating you get full on junk that's not yours. Too many cooks in the kitchen.
You want to know the depths of your own wisdom. You don't need another book, another methodology, another podcast, or more trainings. You do not need to CONSUME ANY MORE INFORMATION. You need to clear out the clutter, silence the voices that aren't yours, and start following your own impulses.
GET IN YOUR CENTER. FOLLOW YOUR OWN VOICE.
If you’re yearning for “more”...
"If you’re a creative who has distanced from your art, it’s time to work with Whitney. If you’re yearning for “more” but not sure what “more” is or how to get there, it’s time to work with Whitney. If you’re feeling disconnected from yourself, your body feels tired or distant, or your soul craves illumination, it’s time to work with Whitney."
Jayna
... what I have been aching for all along.
"I was looking for someone who is courageously fierce, coupled with a tender heart, and I found her. Whitney masterfully wove the deepest part of her knowing, developed from her committed practice of listening, into the tapestry of my wholeness. Her work lingers long after our time together and has become an instinctual resource in moments of need. After working with numerous Facilitators, I wholeheartedly can say that Whitney’s medicine and integrity are what I have been aching for all along."
Tiffany
WHAT'S INCLUDED
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9-Months of Powerful Support
SHARING, CONNECTION, AND COLLECTIVE MOMENTUM
THRESHOLD is designed to be incredibly intimate, embedded with multiple layers of personalized support, so you can get the clarity and momentum you need to move the needle on the things that matter.
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9 Live Teaching Sessions
2 HOUR GROUP CALL ONCE/MONTH
Each month you’ll have one live teaching (a combination of the spiritual, nervous system, and developmental skills required) to really live the life that is yours to live. A combination of story, teaching, and embodiment. This sets the stage.
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9 Live Coaching Sessions
1.5 HOUR GROUP CALLS ONCE/MONTH
Each month you’ll have one circle session where you get to bring your questions, fears, frustrations, desires - whatever is arising for you. Sometimes the work will be somatic trauma resolution, sometimes it will be practical, sometimes it will be challenging your bs, sometimes it will be a communal healing endeavor. You're gonna get what you need while being held in a circle. It makes the impact 10x deeper.
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9 Rituals
2-HOUR RITUAL JOURNEY
Each month you’ll have one ritual to EMBODY the learning. To tap into the archetypal, liminal, under the surface realms. These rituals will help you shift out of your everyday personality and help you reclaim essential parts of yourself. Rituals are a space for alchemy, transmutation, and deeper homecoming. These will be developed out of the arising needs of the group field.
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Weekly Devotional/Creative Practice
WEEKLY SPIRITUAL/CREATIVE PRACTICE
Once a week in the morning, we'll drop into devotional practice and creative practice. We'll commune with and attune to The Feminine Force of Love through song, dance, prayer, writing, self-touch ... coming to the altar again and again. You'll develop a regular creative practice that brings soul material to the surface, giving you a consistent, embodied outlet for what's stirring in your psyche and soul.
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In Person Retreat in Greece
A THRESHOLD CROSSING INTO YOUR NEW TIMELINE
It's all building to THIS. A 6-day, all-inclusive in person retreat in Crete, Greece where you will receive a rite of passage initiation. You're going to get to live into the full bloom of your transformation over these last 9 months. Every day will be filled with embodiment, ritual, creative process, song, and being called into your fullness. It's an experience you'll never forget.
YOUR IN-PERSON INITIATION IN GODDESS PARADISE
RETREAT IN GREECE
SEPTEMBER/OCTOBER 2026
CRETE, GREECE
A six day, all-inclusive in person retreat in Crete, Greece - one of the earliest recorded places where female dieties were the center of culture. We'll come together on this magical island deeply infused with the pulse of the Goddess. Powerful ritual, threshold crossing, wild celebration, and a once-in-a lifetime experience to honor and witness the journey we've been on together.
ENTER YOUR NEW TIMELINE
" THRESHOLD was profound
and life altering. "
Because of it I will never be the same, and am also more myself than ever before. I received archetypal initiation, the deep feminine connection and community that I’ve longed for, true nourishment, an abundance of life-giving reflection and support. And now, I am fully rooted and expanded in my fullness and this new phase of my life. Whitney and the spaces that she creates are life-changing beyond words.
Emily
"... one of the most profound experiences of my life."
Gathering at the Threshold with Whitney and the circle of women is the bravest leap I've ever taken and the most powerful gift I've given myself. The way Whitney is able to hold a circle of women is potent medicine. It is powerful, it is soft, it is transformative. Threshold is one of the most profound experiences of my life. The remembering and coming home to myself. The gratitude I feel for my experience in Threshold is exponential and will live on through me in the way I am in relationship with myself, my family and my community. Whitney and her work is a gift steeped in divinity. It is a journey worth embarking on. I am beyond thankful I took the leap.
Alicia
"What I learned is the difference between destiny and fate. We are all fated to die. Destiny is recognizing the radiance of the soul that, even when faced with human impossibility, loves all of life. Fate is the death we owe to Nature. Destiny is the life we owe to soul."
- Marion Woodman
Step into the Fire
This Threshold experience was profound, life changing, and life affirming. I've never felt so loved on, so seen and so supported as I stepped out of my comfort zone to reclaim my truest, most essential self. This experience meant total, loving connection with other women as we all dived into some pretty deep waters. I'm so grateful I said yes to this journey. That small decision to take a leap into work that I was frankly scared of, led me to understand that there is an ancient divine feminine presence we can all tap into and access. I know I will continue to devote myself to this feminine power, her tenderness and her wisdom, for the rest of my life.
" I've never felt so loved on, so seen,
and so supported ... "
Grainne
THE INVESTMENT
$9000
$1500 deposit required
Then $625/ 12 MONTHS
*Includes the all-inclusive in-person retreat
PROGRAM DATES
JAN 29 - OCT 29 2026
RETREAT DATES
SEPT/OCT 2026
*exact dates TBD
Because of the highly intimate nature of THRESHOLD, this is an application-only program.
Once your application is reviewed, you'll either get the green light, or we'll hop on a call to connect more deeply.
" This journey was life-altering and paradigm-shifting for me."
This journey was life-altering and paradigm-shifting for me. When I came in, I was swimming in a sea of tools I could pick up, but we’re no longer serving me in a meaningful way. They had run their course.
I needed deep, communal work. I needed sisterhood, and enough time for the Medicine to really kick in. Threshold gave me anchors, a Teacher I deeply love and trust, and Sisters for life. These women will forever be part of my story, and I have a Home to come back to when I am lost at sea. They remind me of who I am. They remind me of how to rest back in the arms of The Mother when the world seems too lost to recover. It’s not that I’m never fearful - it’s that I have arms to hold me in my fear. I am a better mother because of this journey. I am a better member of my community. I am a sturdier home within myself. Thank you, Whitney, for giving me the gift of knowing how to experience the most tender, healing Love I’ve ever felt.
MJ
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
WHEN ARE THE CALLS?
The regular live calls will be Thursdays from 3-4:30 pm CST. The ritual calls will be from 3-5pm CST. You have the last week of every month off for integration. The devotional calls are Friday mornings from 9-10am CST.
WHAT IF I CAN'T MAKE ALL THE LIVE CALLS?
Life happens, and if you have to miss a call or two, it's no big deal. The calls will be recorded and made available to you. If you will regularly not be able to attend the live calls, Threshold isn’t for you at this time. This program is built on live teaching and is emergent based on the group field. Your participation is important! Threshold is a living, breathing creative process. We want you there!
I FEEL REALLY CALLED TO THIS JOURNEY, BUT HOW DO I KNOW IT'S RIGHT FOR ME?
If you feel a deep call, fill out an application and we’ll connect to make sure this is the right fit for you.
If you have additional questions, reach out to whitney@whitneyullom.com
WHAT'S YOUR REFUND POLICY?
I’ve worked hard to be as clear + transparent as possible about what you are signing up for. Because this journey is limited to 9 women there is a strict no refund policy. If for any reason you are unsatisfied or have some kind of emergency that prevents you from participating, we will work together to find the best course of action.
CAN I DO THRESHOLD WITHOUT COMING TO THE RETREAT?
Threshold was specifically designed to build toward the retreat. It is an essential part of the journey. Which is why the cost of the retreat is included in the price of the program. You won't want to miss it. Believe me, it's gonna change your life. And after journeying this intimately for 9 months, meeting in person is a magical experience.
If you decide not to come to the retreat, that is your choice, but the price of the program will not be adjusted.
DOES THIS REPLACE THERAPY?
Yes & No. In some ways, yes, this program is a response to the way therapy can keep people stuck and disembodied. Although there are therepuetic principles that will be explored in this program, it is meant to serve a much different purpose. And I am not a therapist. If you are at the beginning of a therapy journey, this program is probably not for you at this time. It's best suited for those who are tired of therapy and ready to move and explore in radically different ways.
IF I'VE ALREADY DONE THRESHOLD CAN I DO IT AGAIN?
Yes! Although many of the core foundations of this program are the same, this is a whole new Threshold, and what I am bringing to it is very fresh and alive. If you feel like you wanna come back, I highly encourage it. We're going Threshold 3.0!
WendySue
Sarah
This was one of the hardest and best journeys I've been on in my healing journey. Time and time again, this program gave me full permission to show up exactly as I was, with the shame, the resistance, the joy, the excitement. It was all welcome over and over and over again. To the point where it started to feel okay being more of myself, holding my head a little higher, asking the question, showing up. I am still feeling the after effects of being in this program and I am quite certain, I will continue to feel them as I continue to show up for myself and in my life.
I am better able to express in a way that is alignment with who I truly am. There is so much that has always been there but is newly realized. I do not need to try and fit in, I get to be me, and I belong. This journey offered me the opportunity to turn sorrow into gold and live with more shine. I get to be as free as a mockingbird, knowing that I can sing. Celebrations, victories, hurdles, detours, roadblocks, possibilities, wonder, trust, questioning, doubt, power, and deep wisdom … we go through it all individually, and yet together in safety and holding.
"... full permission to show up exactly as I was ..."
"I got to turn sorrow into gold …"
"A choice confronts us. Shall we, as we feel our foundations shaking, withdraw in anxiety and panic? Frightened by the loss of our familiar mooring places, shall we become paralyzed and cover our inaction with apathy? If we do those things, we will have surrendered our chance to participate in the forming of the future."
Rollo May, The Courage to Create